In order to bring back love letters, we must first bring back the real lovers, and in order to bring back the real lovers, we must bring back emotional intelligence, kindness, empathy, and consideration.
If a man only wants a situationship with you, there are two clear things you can see very early on where you can go, “Yep, he probably just wants the short-term fun.”
And if you’re wanting long-term, then this thread is for you:1/4
I don’t see why people don’t consider co-parenting ancestral. You don’t think there were villages where women and men lived separately for the best interest of the land? Ya’ll can’t possibly think “broken” homes are a new concept.
Mercury Retrograde reminder: Detach a little more. Care a little less.
I’ve realized that everyone is living through their own perspective of reality. Not everyone is going to understand you, and not everyone is meant to. The more you try to force people to see your perspective, the more energy you waste trying to convince someone who may never understand your heart.
Instead of chasing understanding, choose alignment. Let the people who naturally understand you find you. Stop forcing yourself into spaces where you’re constantly explaining who you are.
Protect your peace. Release the need to be understood by everyone. The right people won’t require you to shrink, over-explain, or prove yourself, they’ll simply get you.
Women love resting. It’s one of their favorite things to do. Reading, laying under the sun, painting their nails, writing, journaling, taking baths, drinking a cup of tea in silence, sleeping, doing nothing. And there’s nothing wrong with that, they need it for a reason, it’s medicine! ♥️
Sis to sis, always remember this: Just because you don't require a lot doesn't mean you deserve the bare minimum. Don’t undervalue your self worth for any man.