I love watching the constant amount of DMs roll in from โsubsโ. Donโt you know how to be a sub? You start with tribute, thatโs the first rule. If you canโt do that, youโre not a sub ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Dommes, please remember to keep the subs who are showing up for you. Not every sub is meant to be drained and deleted. Some of them are rare little gems that deserve to be kept close and spoiled with your presence ๐
โจ Keep the subs who:
๐ Consistently check in without needing to be chased
๐ธ Send without hesitation because they genuinely love supporting you
๐ถ Respect your rules, your moods, your boundaries and donโt make everything about them
๐ง Value your energy, not just your content or body
๐ Ask how your day is, remind you that youโre doing amazing, and support your glow-up just as much as they admire your power
Itโs so easy to focus on the rude ones, the flaky ones, the ones who waste our time but when a sub makes life easier, not harder? Thatโs worth something too. Youโre allowed to enjoy the soft ones. The loyal ones. The quiet senders and big supporters. Theyโre not weak theyโre rare. Letโs normalize keeping the good ones because spoiled doesnโt always have to mean savage. Sometimes, it just means protected, honored, and adored ๐