@goldendrip___ @sagsarcasm The best feeling is fucking the shit out of somebody who’s been ducking and dodging you, it’s like “look mf this what you been missing” and then we gotta make you miss us because you caused this shit to be this way and we can’t just let you get away easy
The funny thing is when we find that mature partner and the relationship is healthy, we start to see everything wrong with us. The good part is we become intentional about working on our flaws, because we know the last thing we want is to lose them.
My next relationship we're having a monthly sit down. Just sit and discuss us, how things are going, what we can do to develop our relationship more. you will be surprised at what just a lil communication can do for any relationship
One of the hardest truths in relationships is this-
You and your partner will hurt each other,even when you love each other deeply. People like to believe that real love means no pain,but that’s a fantasy. Real love includes moments that sting. Not because your partner is bad or toxic,but they are human. And humans mess up. They’ll say the wrong thing,they’ll disappoint you,they’ll fall short in ways they never meant to and you’ll hurt them too. You’ll miss their needs,you’ll fail without realising it. The question isn’t will this happen,because it will. The real question is what you do after the hurt. Can you talk about it? Can you stay when it’s uncomfortable? Can you choose the relationship over your ego? Can you forgive and be forgiven? Can you grow instead of walking away?
There are no perfect partners,but there are people worth keeping. The ones who stay and heal with you.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
being sensitive is so embarrassing..
like, how am i supposed to tell you i’m upset just because your energy felt a little off, and it made me feel unwanted 😑
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.