when you finally realize that someone’s behavior has more to do with their internal struggle than it ever did with you, you learn grace. you also naturally learn detachment as well.
hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. you gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going.