u have to be able to think dialectically. understand nuance, and prioritize logic and pattern recognition over emotional reasoning. those are the rules before speaking to me
You will stop engaging when you realize the scale of arrested development going on in society. Most of these people are teenagers mentally.. and I’m being generous. A lot of people are stuck in elementary school when it comes to reasoning, comprehension, and decision making.
Being too emotional or reactionary can cause you to lose your life, and/or your opportunities
Take a little more time to think about the moves you're making right now, and how you're handling adversity in this moment
Sometimes the win is in doing nothing, & just regrouping
Critical thinking and the actual intention to understand,not just respond,should be a non negotiable prerequisite in a partner. We all deserve active problem solving,not just passive commentary.
Me explaining to my homegirl that when she denies people the opportunity to (earnestly) give/gift her things she may be denying an opportunity for deeper connection and for the other party to pour into her. Receiving is just as important as giving.
Gotta stop letting people self narrate. If you go by what people say about themselves, you’ll only have the version they’re selling to you. Best way to learn a person is to wait and see. Go by what they actually live by, not what they claim to live by.
When you truly know who you are,you don't get offended when people point out your flaws. You're already aware of them. It's either something you're actively working on or something you've accepted.
I know its taking forever, but baby when its your time, its gonna be a time. Keep working. Keep preparing. And keep that head up. Don’t let the process knock you down, its making you a beast. So that when its go time, beast mode is the only mode you’ll know!!
Self awareness is exhausting because it ruins your own excuses. You can’t even ruin your life in peace anymore because you know exactly which old pattern you’re repeating. Ignorance is nolonger bliss,it becomes heavy responsibility.
Life gets 100000% better when you zoom in and drown out the noise. Figure out who you are. Then figure out your purpose. Execution is hard when you don’t know these 2 things.