i don’t have the english to explain what i want to say but lento oyishoyo ayikho. you are just making excuses for deadbeat parents and blaming it on “choosing” your baby daddy lmaoo.
What this means in simple terms
If a foreign couple has a baby in South Africa, the baby’s birth must be registered even if the parents are undocumented or overstayed their visas. The child must be issued a birth certificate recording the facts of their birth that can lately be used to register their children in their countries.
What it does not mean:
-It does not make the child a South African citizen.
-It does not give the parents legal status or permanent residence.
-It does not stop Home Affairs from deporting parents who are in the country unlawfully.
The judge specifically emphasized that birth registration does not automatically confer South African citizenship.
Lol all marginalised groups are allowed to express themselves except the poor. When poor people express themselves they are told that their reality is not real. That studies and statistics disagree with their lived reality. Ay
Let me educate you not with anger, but with truth. You assume South Africans lack exposure. You assume we believe other African countries are poor and undeveloped. That is not the case. We know the reality. We know Nigeria has oil. We know Ghana has gold. We know Kenya has tech. We know Botswana has diamonds. We know Zambia has copper. We know Zimbabwe has platinum and lithium. We know the DRC sits on $24 trillion in minerals. We know Africa is rich.
But here is what you do not understand, wealth beneath the ground does not translate to prosperity above it. You can have all the minerals in the world but if your leaders steal, your constitutions hostile towards humans rights, if your institutions are corrupt, if your people are divided by tribe, if your healthcare collapses, if your schools crumble, if your youth flee then you are poor. Not in resources. In governance. In accountability. In dignity.
We do not look down on Africa. We look at the mirror Africa refuses to face. We see our own flaws corruption, unemployment, crime and we fight them. We protest. We vote. We demand better. That is what makes us different. We do not run. We stay. We build. We hold our leaders accountable, even when it hurts.
You say we lack exposure. But we see you. We see your leaders flying overseas to get treated, some in our country to get medical treatment, while your children starve. We see your ports exporting raw minerals while your people have no jobs. We are not blind. We are not ignorant. We are honest.
The difference between South Africa and many other African countries is not wealth. It is the willingness to confront failure. We own ours. You run from yours. That is not a lack of exposure. That is a lack of accountability. And until you fix that, no mineral, no resource, no tweet will save you. Go home. Fix your house. Then talk to us about exposure.
If a man asked me this, my first thought would be that he’s a loser and won’t be seeing me again because why are you obsessed with stranger’s lives to this extent?
“I cook for my husband”= You’re a slave
“We split the bills”= Your husband is useless
“I spoil my wife”= You’re a simp
“I dress modestly”= You’re in an abusive marriage
“My wife and I make decisions together”= You’re not a real man
“I can’t do random nights out because I’m married” = You’re husband/wife is controlling
“My wife earns more than me”= You’re a useless leech
“My husband is the breadwinner”= You have no say since you bring nothing to the table
“I don’t need a male/female bestie because I’m married”= Your partner is insecure
This is how some of you see the world 😂
Y’all are far too pathetic and miserable to really understand what goes into making a marriage successful. Happy couples should keep it to themselves because you guys will find a fault in everything they do.
it’s soo funny how people want to make it seem like their fave wife is the one that’s loved the most when in actual fact they’ve all been mistreated 😭 every wife has had their season and it’s Thobile’s now #UthandoNesthembu
Liberal men don't police who women date. Liberal men don't call women hoes for existing. Liberal men don't kill women for saying no. Liberal men don’t think purchasing a drink is consent. Liberal men don’t enable each other to literally violate women’s constitutional rights to dignity. Liberal men don’t go around calling single mothers “used up/washed up”. Liberal men aren’t raping atleast 200+ women daily. But hey if that’s your definition of “the MOST liberal”… then what exactly is your bar?
lol but you guys will continue to make any excuse for deadbeats akere? Love how this article states that 3-4% of children live with the father only. A statistical anomaly.
Also highlights how boys are more affected by this and this is a big contributor to boys falling behind
You’re not ‘pro choice’ if you are harassing and bullying single mothers, baby mamas and women who are pregnant without ‘the ring’ you’re still actively participating in misogyny. Just another flavor of misogyny.