One quality you must absolutely have as a man is the ability to articulate yourself fluently. If you look like Adonis and the moment you open your mouth, “catastrophe”, whatever attraction I had flies out the window!
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Personal development really starts from taking into account the outcomes you do not like in your life but are currently experiencing. You cannot go forward if you haven't taken inventory of the past.
No amount of personal development is going to hold water, or last, or subsist if your mind is not renewed, re-engineered and recalibrated.
You cannot pour new wine into old wine skins lest you waste the wine and ruin the wine skin….
@HygeneTecnician@TheShadeRoom True. Don’t big me up with flattery because we both know I’m neither the most beautiful nor the most intelligent. The fact that you chose to be with me regardless is testament to your unwavering commitment to me. If that ain’t assuring, I don’t know what else is tbh
@SM_architect_@TheShadeRoom Exactly! This is it! People are just so sensitive this days it galls me. She may not be the most beautiful or most intelligent which is pure facts but He Chose Her!!!! That’s the most beautiful thing anyone can ever say to me. What’s the big deal??
You may not need a relationship right now. What you need is a timeout or a retreat where you come to terms with the pain from the past, confront your personal demons, connect the dots and seek emotional and spiritual guidance. You can’t walk this journey alone.
You shouldn’t come from from a broken, dysfunctional family and marry into one. Chances are high that you will if you lack self-awareness and haven’t healed the brokenness inside you. There’s something about pain in humans that attracts…..
If you don’t do the inner work of healing the childhood trauma and damage caused by your parent’s brokenness, chances are that you may repeat the same cycle. Spirituality is key for anyone who’s hurting and needs some form of respite because that will keep you centered…..