some things don't go back to normal, even after an apology. once you've seen how someone can hurt you, you can't unsee it. you can forgive, and even laugh together like nothing happened, but a part of you will always remember how it felt, and that changes everything.
As someone with anxiety, I cannot do inconsistency. Don’t introduce me to energy and a vibe you don’t plan on maintaining. One minute, you’re sweet; the next minute, you’re mean and cold. One minute, you’re present; the next minute, you’re distant. Absolutely not.
Wanna know a hard pill to swallow? It's YOUR fault if you get hurt by holding on to someone who has shown you time and time again that they're not good for you.
i highly recommend u find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who is super excited about you. life’s too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
the toughest part about being an adult is understanding that life goes on no matter what you’re going through. you LITERALLY have to show up even if you’re sad, exhausted, heartbroken or grieving. life won’t slow down for you, SO YOU HAVE TO KEEP MOVING.
Girls, please stop sending men long paragraphs after they hurt you. They don't care and nothing you say will guilt trip them into caring. Take your dignity and go.
I stayed with a man who was half ready. I hoped. I waited. I extended grace. I tried to meet him where he was instead of honoring where I was. Over time, his lack of readiness pulled me out of my character. I became reactive. I became hardened. I started responding in ways that were not aligned with who I am. That is what misalignment does. It erodes you.
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