When you are in a serious relationship, you suppose to move differently. Kunezinto nje ekmele zikweqe, kuneyndawo nie ekmele singakboni kuzona ungatshelwanga muntu, ay ngoba kukuthi you're being controlled or your partner either being insecure kodwa nje inhlonipho ibalulekile. Ukucabangela umuntu wakho before you do anything kubalulekile, Ucabangele nesthunzi sakhe. A relationship where respect & consideration is practised is a happy relationship❤️
Ntando Once Took Center Stage Because Of How She Lived Her Life With Bash. Purple Gang 💜 Got Angry And Turned That Anger Into Hate.
When Ntando And Bash Split After She Cheated, The Same Crowds Started Celebrating. Men Were Bashed. Pain Was Mocked. When Bash Was Found Crying By The Roadside, He Was Called Weak And Stupid. I Still Remember People Saying “We Need To Hurt Them Even More.”
That’s Not Accountability. That’s Cruelty.
Now Nandi Madida Is Being Appreciated By Men For Speaking With Balance And Calm. Suddenly The Same Groups Feel Threatened. Suddenly Men Must Feel Guilty Again. Suddenly Empathy Is A Problem.
Brother, Let’s Be Honest.
Men Are Not The Problem.
Hatred Disguised As Empowerment Is.
When Men Hurt, It’s Mocked.
When Men Heal, It’s Resented.
And The System Keeps Clapping.
That’s The Pattern.