Not an irk, but yesterday I offered a colleague of mine (30M) a lift to get food at FreshStop and asked him to put on his seatbelt. He genuinely didn’t know how to use it 😭 He literally pulled it out, hung it around his body and said, “It is fine like this?”
I had to help him with it and, honestly, that moment was painful to see. Not because he didn’t know how to use a seatbelt, but because it made me realise how easily we take certain things for granted.
So getting back to the irk: NO. Let’s not pick on men for not having cars. You genuinely have no idea what someone’s circumstances are, what they’ve had access to, or what they’re dealing with. A car is a privilege, not a measure of someone’s worth.
Months into my grieving journey, I came to the realization that this had been other people’s reality too, long before it was mine. All those days I was living richly and happily, someone’s world had ended, that day was just my turn.
You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
Wow. I thought that it was wrong for him to stab a kid to death but now that I see these videos of Karmelo smiling and stuff I’ve realized that actually he should have been allowed to murder whoever he wanted. I apologize for my error.
@_ayanda_sengane@Thabi_kaNkosi being trusted to just get shit done without micromanagement. no constant check-ins, flexible hours, and they even defend you in meetings. the real cheat code is consistency.
genuine question,why the hell you guys are obsessed with leading women?
What these leadership qualities you possess that makes you think yah neh i can nakhona ku leadwani why can't you just be equal partners,live and then die.
Dating Latoya Makhene doesn’t land you in a psychiatric hospital, it lands you on podcasts, interviews, and TikTok Lives. And her level of keeping quiet and allowing all her ex to crash out needs to be studied at the University of Soweto 😭