Yoh sana my ex would call me names (ginger cat/too friendly/ whore) just for being with MY friends, any male service provider and once asked me if I would braid any of my male friends hair and he immediately said I’m looking for validation.😭🧍🏾♀️
A healthy relationship will test you more than a toxic one. Because it won't let you run. It holds up a mirror and says: Show up. Communicate. Grow. Swallow the pride. It's a repeated choice to stay and work at it together. Even when it's hard and ugly. That's why real love scares people so much in this generation.