Hi everyone! I'm new to findom, looking for some dommes to follow and subs to give me love 🥰🥰
If you're a domme interact and I'll follow u!! All tips and advice are welcome too!
If you're a sub, tribute/reach out - I would consider myself a soft domme but I'm open 🥰
I require an initial send to speak to subs bc you can tell what kind of person I am from my posts. You need more in-depth conversation with me to establish a dynamic that may be beneficial, but you can't "try before you buy."
I don't want to talk to every sub to see if we form a connection unless you send first.
If you're a sub who needs that, then I just assume you're too lazy to scope out someone's content and pages.
9 SCAMS TO WATCH OUT FOR NEW DOMMES ⚠️
I’ve seen a lot of new dommes join X recently, so I'll share a few common scams to be aware of. Here’s a list of the 9 scams I see happening most often:
1. Amazon Wishlist Scam:
Some scammers will mark wishlist items as “purchased” or buy and then cancel the order leaving you thinking they’ve sent a gift, but actually, they’re only trying to get free content. A safer alternative? Use sites like Throne, which guarantees secure wishlist transactions.
2. Sugar Daddy Scams:
Watch for anyone offering big “allowances” or “sugar daddy” setups, especially if they want to pay by check, Western Union, or ask for a fee to be paid before you get the money. Often, they’ll ask you to forward a “fee” and then disappear. Sometimes, they’ll offer to deposit money but cancel the original transaction, leaving you in debt. Never share your bank info for deposits.
3. Verification Request Scam:
Some subs will ask for a “custom video” or specific photo to “verify” you. This is usually a ploy to get free content or to collect your media and impersonate you on a catfish account. Be very cautious about these requests!
4. Credit Card Scam:
Subs may offer their credit card to make purchases on their behalf, only to later claim fraud. This can lead to lost accounts and legal issues. Never make direct purchases with a sub’s credit card.
5. Free Chat Scam:
A sub might promise to pay and then get defensive or avoidant when you bring up payment. This manipulation tactic is often used to avoid payment altogether. Stick with your boundaries and never let conversations drift too long without a tribute.
6. PayPal Scam:
Some will insist on paying through PayPal only, then later file a dispute to get the money back after the session or content is received. Always ensure payment methods are safe and secure; remember PayPal disputes are common.
7. "Motivation to Send" Scam:
Some subs will claim they need to be “motivated” to send, hoping you’ll initiate domination for free. This is a common tactic for a free session, and they rarely pay up. Never beg or chase subs for money, they should come to you.
8. Free Humiliation Scam:
Some subs might send explicit images unsolicited, along with a message meant to provoke or offend you in hopes you’ll humiliate them for free. Block them, don’t respond or share their image, as this only plays into their tactic.
9. Blackmail Scam:
Some will request blackmail scenarios or voluntarily give personal details, hoping you’ll engage in blackmail play. But they won’t pay, and it’s illegal to involve anyone else. Only engage with clear boundaries and always require tribute up front.