@LordGoddessM @nearlydone71 @angelbratcunt @FemdomCanada And when “life legitimately gets in the way” of serving, discuss options and solutions with your Domme vs just ghosting and disappearing
@nearlydone71 @angelbratcunt @LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada @LordGoddessM would definitely have a perspective on "flaky" subs. Finding a long-term consistent slave that you're compatible with is not an easy endeavour. Yet most people think that Dommes have the easy side of the equation. It is a huge emotional investment for a Domme
@nearlydone71 @angelbratcunt @LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada I think your post shows the reality for most subs (hence the big gap between fantasy vs reality). This dynamic is likely what gives many subs the reputation of being “flakes” - here today gone tomorrow back in a month gone again after that!
@chris08136622 @LordGoddessM@loserslaveboi @FemdomCanada I definitely do as Goddess' slave. I would assume Her trial live-in did as well but would love to know as well!
@himanshukuniyal@loserslaveboi@LordGoddessM And sometimes "life" gets in the way & you need to scale back service (especially in 6+ years of serving @LordGoddessM). Clear & honest communication is important to find a solution & temporarily adjust the dynamic to deal with what life throws our way
@himanshukuniyal@loserslaveboi@LordGoddessM Not necessarily. Maybe it's just an occasional fetish for you and full time / live in is not for you for whatever reason. Does it have to be all-in or all-out??
@bobbank14@LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada We should trade stories about how we have been punished by Alphas. Goddess' Alpha definitely enjoys verbal humiliation and punishment
@bobbank14@LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada I know a few other Dommes that went through the same transformation ;-) Just to be clear btw, I don't like serving men/in front of men. Goddess knows this. But these are not my decisions. And I don't think that this dislike is related to jealousy.
@himanshukuniyal@LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada Goddess has me refer to myself as "it" or "this slave" except online because it seems to cause confusion. It definitely does show you your place when you are an "it"! All of Goddess' friends (that know about the dynamic) use the same term as does Sir (Alpha)
@bobbank14@LordGoddessM @FemdomCanada I could see how that changes the dynamic! I am not jealous in general so I think I would be ok with that even if it was my wife. But hard to say until you are in a cage and actually experiencing it!