Alhamdulillah, I cannot be gaslighted nor insulted about encouraging self sufficiency in my fellow ladies/women especially Muslim women.
Theres enough evidence to support rich , industrious , entrepreneurial and financially literate and savvy Muslim women in the Seerah of the Prophet SAW. I am named after one and so proud to use Her as a valid reason why I have insane financial/ and Rizk goals.
The Riches of Khadeejah was very useful to our Prophet and the Deen , so useful was She that the Prophet stayed the entire 27 years of their marriage without marrying another woman and He mourned Her loss in such a way that even in death His other wife was reported to be jealous of Her.
So before you come for me , Be aware that I am not a novice and I know my religion well enough to match whatever craziness you bring. I am not one of the Sisters you will gaslight.
I may choose to look away , it won't be out out of respect for you but out of protection for my own sanity or I have checked you out and firmly decided that you are not worth my efforts so I block and keep it moving .
You leave Muslim Sisters in ruin, you leave them hungry, rub them of dignity due to hunger and lack of provision and you dear moan about them wanting to improve themselves by asking Allah for help and working to sort out the mess?
Not around Me. Never will Be. An irresponsible Man will forever remain one, I have so many examples , too many.
Please stay away from me and mine. I detest abuse, especially financial abuse especially used as a weapon of control and till I shall take my last breadth I will continue to work in any capacity to get Sisters out of its rots Insha Allah .
So watch out. What you bring is what you get, Trust me I can be very Brutal if the occasion calls for it.
I didn't get Here to go back there. My Lord is very sufficient, He will bless me with massive Rizk and Barakah till I die and my
progeny too.🤲🤲🤲🤲
Boya ke koshi daanu, Awon Olofo.
Bought houses both Home and abroad, and yes cash down abroad as well
Built a house for my parents
Bought Cars for my parents
Sent 2 of my Siblings to Private University from start till graduation
Series of cars for myself , all cash down
Sponsored my Hajj and umrahs repeatedly myself
Sponsored my Mums Hajj single handedly
Survived brutal divorce and bounce back significantly without a significant dent on my finances and not collecting a dime from the Man as alimony or Children support for years.
Sponsoring 2 international Holidays for my kids and I yearly
Supporting my 3 children through school
Went back to study for my Masters.
Building a business in Healthcare and by God's grace so many more
All with assistance of God, Hardwork, resilience and emotional support from few dependable friends
And yes not from any Man but Funds from my Career and serial side hustle whilst maintaining my dignity and integrity. A grateful being and a testament to God's unending goodness plus self belief, hardwork and self assurance.
Never leave the Almighty out of the equation. On bad days, trust Him. On good days, glorify Him. On difficult and confusing days, seek His help. Remember, He is always there for you. He will provide for you and protect you. He won’t forsake you.
Have You Asked For Jannah?
Allahumma inni as‘alukal-jannah wa a'udhu bika mina naar (O Allah! I ask You for Paradise and I seek Your protection from the Fire.
[Sunan Abu Dawud]