I don't get this society.
People want others to give them all the care in the world but when someone gives them that, they take everything for granted. When the care stops they start shift blaming.
Also, having the slightest expectation on someone often leads to disappointment
Japanese actor Hiroyuki Sanada spoke about the contradictions of human nature:
“Some people dream of having a swimming pool at home, while those who have one hardly ever use it. Those who have lost a loved one feel a profound sense of loss, while others often complain about their living relatives. Those without a partner long for one, while those who have one often don't appreciate it. The hungry would give anything for a meal, while the satiated complain about the taste of their food. Those without a car dream of owning one, while those who have a car are always looking for a better one.”
The key to happiness is gratitude: truly seeing and appreciating what we already have, and understanding that somewhere, someone would give anything for what we take for granted.
ppl these days give up so easily. like any minor inconvenience that they faced in life it's an automatic "oh it's not meant to be".
like c'mon the only thing that u're showing is that u're weak so don't go around telling others how u've tried it's actually laughable.
some nights I'm just wondering: am I doing too much to the point ppl start to feel discomfort around me? what is the limit in being myself without driving others away?
it's always a constant struggle of understanding limitation of care and love towards someone dear to me
dating an emotionally intelligent man is not for the weak and a lot of women say they want that until it’s time for him to actually show it and now you’re uncomfortable. because now he’s not reacting, he’s responding. He’s not yelling, he’s setting boundaries. He’s not chasing chaos, he’s choosing peace. And that forces you to face yourself. He’s gonna call out your patterns without disrespecting you.
He’s gonna communicate instead of shutting down. He’s gonna hold you accountable in a way that.
and please don't ever let social media influence/determine your relationship. Know that every relationship is unique and you have to learn to see what's right and wrong in your context.