How dare you blame me for my reaction when it was your actions that put me in that position in the first place? You made choices that hurt me, crossed boundaries you knew would affect me, and then acted as if my response was the real problem. I’m not saying I handled everything perfectly, but it’s unfair to paint me as the villain while ignoring the reasons I was hurting. You can criticize my reaction, but don’t forget what caused it.
Yall really should stop with this bullshit narrative.
All men said is they want their efforts reciprocated. You want your bills paid in the dating stage but bristle up at doing something for him besides fukking him. Kewchie just ain't enough. Sorry.
crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
My last relationship really opened my eyes. Going back again and again doesn’t mean anything will change. You can love harder, be more patient, give chance after chance, pray on it, wait on potential, and still end up right back where you started. Same problems. Same excuses. Same patterns. Same disappointment. I learned that effort doesn’t fix what someone refuses to change.
My last relationship really opened my eyes. Going back again and again doesn’t mean anything will change. You can love harder, be more patient, give chance after chance, pray on it, wait on potential, and still end up right back where you started. Same problems. Same excuses. Same patterns. Same disappointment. I learned that effort doesn’t fix what someone refuses to change.