Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
REMINDER: you deserve to be someone’s first pick, not an option. you’re worthy of undivided attention, steady effort, and real love. know your worth always
Y’ALL WOULD BE SURPRISED HOW MANY PEOPLE LEAVE WORK, GO HOME, EAT, SHUT THE DOOR, SCROLL THROUGH THEIR PHONE UNTIL THEY FALL ASLEEP, AND ENJOY THEIR LITTLE WORLD. THAT’S IT. THAT’S THEIR LIFE.
Do I want to give my child the privilege of having both mommy & Daddy together? Absolutely I’d go through hell & back for that, but I will not sit in an unhappy toxic miserable situation teaching my child that’s okay to deal with a man’s bullshit for the sake of a child. Nah, sorry!
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.