When a woman says ''all men'', as a man you shouldn't get triggered. ''Oh your dad and brother too?''
You as a decent man know she's safe from you but as a woman its very natural for them to be on guard against all men. Hence, all men.
Expecting sex because you paid for dinner is coercion. It’s part of rape culture. Hope that helps. If your generosity comes with a sexual invoice, you weren’t being romantic ... you were trying to purchase access to someone’s body.
the most disgusting thing about the Cornell 7 case is how MEN are responding to it. this is why women will never be safe because of the amount of men victim-blaming
Lucu aja sih tiba-tiba banyak laki-laki yang trauma dumping ke kasus catcalling itu.
Kalian yang melakukan ini tuh sadar nggak sih kalau kalian memang melanggengkan budaya-budaya rapist?
Duduk perkaranya adalah kalian menyederhanakan kasusnya jadi MEMBERI SEMANGAT = CATCALLING.
Issues raised by feminists:
- Rapes
- Sexual harassment
- Murders
- Domestic violence
- Forced marriage
- Sexual exploitation
- Labor inequality
Issues raised by men:
- Women reject them
- Men always have to pay
Rape is caused by one thing:
A rapist.
Not her clothes.
Not alcohol.
Not flirting.
Not walking home alone.
Not trusting the wrong person.
Stop interrogating the victim’s choices and start blaming the person who chose to rape.