having to explain this to people genuinely breaks my heart. where’s the fun? where’s the whimsy? where is the sub top crying bc of how badly he wants to fuck his dom?
everytime this topic comes up a thousand smartasses like to go "erm you weren't actually gifted" yeah dude that's the whole fucking point
being told "you're super special and smart" when you're actually just like everyone else fucks you over in the long run