It's not worth worrying about what people who don't matter think of us. Our happiness shouldn't depend on their opinions. Let's focus on being true to ourselves and surrounding ourselves with people who truly care about us.
The most interesting part about this particular video was where he asked about his mom, and the Dad replied, "Ta je Doka" in hausa, meaning She went to Doka, this place is like a forest where people primarily go to farm, since the raining season just started.
Mumsy doesn't know she might not touch a hoe or see the bush for the rest of her life again, and honestly, this is what we all long for.
Congratulations Zadok