dom who promises he has a fun surprise for you <3 blindfolds you and makes you get in the car. it doesnt take long before youre there. he walks u past what sound like slidey doors. you take off the blindfold n ur at the dentists-- THAT MOTHERFUCKER TOOK U TO THE VET
NONS*XUAL DOMINANCE IS SO <3 having someone choose for you? placing a hand on your back? pulling you closer in crowded areas? fixing your hair when you didnt know it was messy? holding your hand to guide you through crowds? telling you when you should eat/go to bed? god tier
some of you just aren’t built to be able to be in a relationship with someone with bpd.
my bf is a wonderful human being who handles my episodes amazingly but also is just a fucking phenomenal bf who does not trigger me into these kinda episodes because he has a brain to think.