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@3scalat3quickly It doesn’t help you understand certain dynamics actually, some yes. It’s awful to go through that and I’m sorry you have. But it is still different things we are talking about.
Also, you can just not reply.
All I’m saying is they’re real people. That’s my final word.
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@3scalat3quickly And yes you may have been through a lot for the record, anyone could. But there are certain things you do learn as you get older.
Based on experiences and environments.
But either way, whether people care or not, idols are still real people and we all should remember that.🩷 ciao
@3scalat3quickly I know exactly and you did do it. Again I’m 29 love, I know full well. And when you get older you will too. Treat Jonghyun and others idols like real people. Because they are.
They deserve that respect
@3scalat3quickly You just admitted you brought him up randomly to manipulate me.
And we’ve reached the problem! People make risky acts in the name of Kpop idols that can cause them harm and they don’t care because they don’t see them as real people!
Thank you, we’ve reached the point 🙏
@3scalat3quickly How is it something shared? You literally said someone disagreeing with you will ruin his fans image. I’m not talking to you as his fan so how is he even involved?
Or his fans? “You’re annoying me and I like his fans but you’re ruining it”
Nothing to do with him.
@3scalat3quickly Perfect example however of how people treat idols like concepts and not actual people.
Completely inappropriate.
So you’ve further proved my point. You can’t just throw his name around randomly to try and deepen your argument in something that has nothing to do with him.
@3scalat3quickly That’s just wrong completely. Don’t use him like that.
That’s rather pretentious and disrespectful to him and shawols tbh. Let’s leave him out yeah?
But chan is very like him btw.
So yes I’d like to protect chan.
@3scalat3quickly Why are you bringing Jonghyun into this? He has nothing to do with it. And actually given that, that’s exactly a reason why we should be protecting chan and not doing things that could potentially cause him hate or put him in a comprising position.
@3scalat3quickly It is when these people are knowingly attaching these photos. How many of them would do it if it wasn’t as a stay?
Not many.
And you can’t deny they’ve gotten more like that because people believe he flirted with her. It’s meant to be about being a stay.
@3scalat3quickly Because it isn’t?? They KNOW each other and it’s a consensual relationship. I’m sorry but how are you not getting this? An idol being said to be dating another idol is not the same as accusing him of flirting with FANS, strangers, because of them posting half naked photos
@3scalat3quickly Legit no. As a fan we are still supposed to protect them. This goes back to the point of are you a fan because actually care about and support them as people?
Because it doesn’t sound like it. A lot of people like the concept of being a fan only.
@3scalat3quickly One is shipping, one is painting an idol as a pervert that flirts with young fans if they post saucy photos with him attached.
It is the context that matters
@3scalat3quickly And that’s what is wrong. Because again when did any of the other members even remotely suggest they are okay with that? They barely even join in with fanservice. And the SSDs are getting no better because they believe he interacted with someone before for it!
@3scalat3quickly And that’s the point. People still use that against him despite it not being true.
So that’s why it’s harmful to put them in situations that could create hate and harm to them. That’s the whole damn point. Our job is to protect them not just dismiss it
@3scalat3quickly Nope she was 18 actually.
It was proven.
And that’s NOT the same thing.
Making up random shit about two idols with no grounds is not the same as having legitimate photos of fans sending things and claiming he likes it!
And engages with them because of it
@3scalat3quickly Except it is for HIS birthday, has his photos attached to it and his name.
If it were just for the fans, you wouldn’t involve them at all.
That is the problem. You are involving other people in explicit things, who already have a power dynamic, who did not give an okay to it