“Women should dress modestly to avoid being harassed”……Took my 12 year old niece to her checkup appointment. She was sitting there nervously on the exam table when the male doctor put the tongue depressor too far down her throat. When she didn’t gag, he laughed and said, “I wish I had a girlfriend like you.”
cheating is not an accident. it takes planning, lying, deleting messages, and pretending everything is normal. that’s not a momentary lapse.. it’s a series of deliberate choices.
so when a cheater says they’ll never do it again, what they’re really asking is for you to forget that they’ve already proven they’re capable of it.
believe patterns, not apologies.