@Youngbuck7777 if both people genuinely enjoy it then that’s completely okay 🖤 i just think every dynamic is different and communication always matters, which a lot of doms seem to forget sometimes.
this is honestly just a rant but some of y’all treat “being dominant” like an excuse to bully people. not every sub wants degradation, and if they communicate that, respect it.
dominance is more than just taking money and being mean. real dynamics still need communication, care, and respect. if you don’t care about the person or the dynamic at all, then what are you really doing?
Findom
i think real dominance is knowing how to care for people too, not just what you can get from them.
i see too many people just take n take n take without actually caring. we all have lives outside of this. I want my people successful, not struggling just to please me.