High performers almost always want someone who’s also a high performer. Social media sold a fantasy that a rich man will fund your lifestyle while expecting little in return. That’s why so many are shocked by his comments. He’s not saying homemaking has no value. He’s saying people operating at a certain level want someone who’s just as driven & ambitious.
All the good things I have in my life right now are based on plans I made 10 years ago. A decade will pass quicker than you think. And you will pay a steep cost by not planning for that date.