INTIMATE CARTOGRAPHIES: TSOLO, EASTERN CAPE
With @simphiwedana & @zozitunzi
Intimate Cartographies is our ongoing project mapping Southern Africa through dress & place. We travel to a different town for each chapter, spending time with its histories and people...
Intimacy isn’t limited to sex. It’s crying in front of each other without embarrassment. Whispering at 2 a.m. Talking about childhood wounds and old fears. Visiting places that shaped who you became. Sitting beside each other without needing to speak. Knowing what the other person needs without being told. Sometimes intimacy is simply feeling completely understood.
I think the love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere. a solitary soul loves you by choice, not out of need for company.
A lot of you men are PREDATORS. You believe you’re not because you’re not dragging women into a bush. You think you’re a good guy. In reality, you plot on women you’ve been watching from a distance. Presenting false version of yourself to get intimacy. Predatory.