Just apologize to your partner when you know you’re wrong. All that manipulation and getting mad at them for being upset, especially when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to claim they’re grown until accountability is required.
I'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping on what you can't control. Everyone is going to do what they want, regardless of your feelings. Just control what you can change.. I'm in my "life goes on" era because nothing is worth trippin on for too long