You people donβt even know that itβs most likely the Brand and Marketing team that flagged her content. ππ
I donβt where these βsend her to MARCOMSβ talk is coming from.
Of all the Zenith bank Tiktoker brouhaha, what deeply offended me was people parroting "They should have leveraged her content and moved her to Marketing/Brand comms department"
Wtf do y'all think goes on in Brand & Marketing?
Lagos is actually too random. Why am I opening TikTok to see that Olandria is in Lagos? π€π€π€
Saw Kevin Hart was visiting last week abi two weeks ago.
The way my parents dote over me is too cute π. I can simply just casually complain to my mum that Iβm having a migraine and next thing my dad has called βyour mum said youβre not feeling wellβ. π€£π€£
Someone cannot complain in peace. I love it π₯°
Thank you for sharing this, because my biggest worry when I see stories like this gaining virality are the people internalizing these experiences and using it as their yardstick for future relationships.
Please keep your heart open to love if youβre reading this.
I have one piece to share.
I hope all these TL conversations do not poison your heart.
I hope you're not training your mindspace to start choosing partners from a place of fear, or lowered likelihood to cheat. Ask Israel Juju.
These are faulty compasses.
Churchgoers cheat. Atheists cheat. Hijab wielders cheat.
Virgins cheat. Adelebos cheat. 20s cheat. 30s cheat. 40s cheat.
I hope the factors that calibrate your values, are not from Twitter thinkpieces but are strengthened offline. Else, you will end up as a box of ruin.
My safest predicators for relationships are:
- brackets,
- reciprocity.
If you're doing well financially, box within potentials like you doing well financially. Don't be a 7fig earning techie & you'll be hunting smallies struggling with 200L carryover in Laspotech.
Mental brackets. Intellectual brackets. Financial brackets. Exposure brackets.
One of my theories as to why, people (read men) scale way below these brackets is because they're scripting scenarios for control. They're hunting "bendable" women. Chief, she won't be naive forever - but I'll expand on this, some other time.
Be big on reciprocity. As you're doing for your partner in the early weeks, if they like you they would be doing as much.
Using the filters of brackets and reciprocity, are safer predicators than fear and paranoia.
Following the videos circulating online with reports of unrest in Lekki today, the Lagos State Commisioner of Police carried out a rapid investigation and launched a sting operation between the axis, Chisco and Osakpa bus stop. This led to successful identification and arrest of a number of hoodlums.
The commissioner of Police has assured law abiding citizens that the security of their lives and properties is guaranteed under his watch.
#ZeroToleranceLagos
The number of these street guys are increasing around Marwa axis and itβs about to become a big problem.
One slammed the boot of my car because he asked for money and I didnβt give him.
Iβm even scared of stopping at the traffic light there now.