Attraction Japan

healing men / healing the world / in Japan / 自己啓発

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

Meet with Triumph and Disaster / And treat those two impostors just the same

-Kipling

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Oldest game advice in the book:

“Ask and you shall receive”

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@TheAlienElite Resilience and patience are lost virtues

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Everything is accelerating, becoming disposable. If you train data on trend, you bake the trend into reality.

People should be able to choose. But there’s an over emphasis on surface level thinking in the current paradigm

[Aakash Gupta @aakashgupta]

50% of all relationship advice on Reddit is “leave.” 15 years of data, 52 million comments, and the trend line only goes one direction.

A researcher filtered r/relationship_advice down to 1,166,592 quality comments and tracked what people actually recommend. In 2010, “End Relationship” sat around 30%. By 2025, it’s approaching 50%.

“Communicate” dropped from 22% to 14%. “Compromise” collapsed from 7% to 3%. “Give Space” fell from 25% to 13%. Every category that requires patience lost ground every single year.

The one category growing faster than “leave” is “Seek Therapy,” which went from 1% to 6%. The subreddit is slowly learning to say “this is above my pay grade.”

Train a model on this dataset and it would absolutely tell people to break up. The training data is 50% “leave” and climbing. The model wouldn’t be broken. It would be accurately reflecting what 52 million commenters actually believe about your relationship.

A 50% prior that you should leave, a 14% prior that you should talk about it, and a 6% prior that you need a professional. That’s not LLM psychosis. That’s the median human opinion on your relationship, backed by the largest advice dataset ever assembled.

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

Humans are soup in motion

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How are you complicit in creating the conditions you say you don’t want?

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We are entering the era of authenticity: in a world where everything is fake, authenticity is a glass of fresh water

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No comment needed

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Assume positive intent

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@JamieYo02951755 Yes, but selectively

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

Nobody becomes a suave seduction killer overnight.

Work backwards from your MVP - minimum viable player.

This means - what are the outsized changes you can make today to get 10x the success with women. Then, invest in yourself to take that MVP to a unicorn

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

@JamieYo02951755 First you gotta get from “just a dude” to minimum viable player

Unicorn status is something much more extreme

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

@JEverettLearned Everybody wins when we separate health from ego

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And for everyone who didn’t get the message in the first format, the point is that for MANY reasons it’s always worth approaching even if you feel like you already waited so long it’s awkward

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

If you ever fail to approach and think “it’s too late now” just remember that servers who pretended to leave but came back and gave another mint were perceived better than those who just gave a mint from the beginning. In other words, walking away increases your value

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

Everything you want is on the other side of hard

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@Genos_O Lowering the bar for what you consider acceptable content helps. Being driven by pure curiosity in the girl while also sharing and staying your own agenda also helps. Finally I don’t waste any brain cycles on whether or not she’s interested in me, just move forward steadily

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I regularly see guys want to execute a “script” to avoid doing the hard work of getting to know a girl or working to understand them. In some cases, they might not even be capable of doing this or not know how.

Just note: the highest level of game always deals with ENERGY first

[Attraction Japan @SocialSinapse]

Can beat them all with some moxie

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@TheGremlin2 @DaysOfGame_com I see… when was this? If you can send me the transaction ID I can send you the book

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