@NyakegoMaponya Here is another shock in other instances, some need to get married before they are buried. So the family has the wedding and festivities, then your funeral the next day.
@Ketso28@msivana_ Hhayini nina even when a person tries aniboni. Yes most women bacela ngoba there is no other option for them, but naye makanganayo?/ 400 was to balance for a little while bese aphanda enye. Nani yekani ukumithela umuntu ombonayo uyaziphandela, and expect umhlaba ne zulu.
@Mlonde_G@RealSihleIV My point is kuyehlela. I am not saying men are the only ones capable of violence; my point is that people tend to turn to violence when they do not fear the other person, re-read my last sentence, please.
@SyntaxSavvyy@bab_hlabisa Mara why will you go to his home if marriage is not on the cards for you? Life emakhaya is way different from life emalokishini or town.
@bongyluaziey Your mother is hurt, she is in pain, she fixed him, but that did not take away everything he did. Both of them need help, she needs to heal. The problem with helping only the father he will go back to factory settings and the outcome is not going to be pretty.
@kheswa_thenjiwe Does this mean she is his leftovers? Will she like it when she is referred to as his leftover? Coming on this internet referring to other people as leftovers. Sies
@Real_Precious_M No, never let someone's actions dictate who you are or who you become. If it means that much to and you feel they ignored it, then walk away. If you end up alone because you keep walking away, start looking in the mirror, maybe the problem is staring back at you.
@SciencetistT I agree it should at least be more restrictive, make it harder to access. But to say it is the cause of all that he is counting, no bro, a-holes will be a-holes with or without it.