One of the biggest hacks I’ve learnt as a new wife is this:
Never ask a man what he feels like eating!
They NEVER know!! 😭
Anything ke? 😭 Can’t they just be specific?
Anyway, Don’t ask.
Just cook whatever you feel like eating…
they’ll happily eat it. 😂
@Morris_Monye@Ifeanyicc@Mr_harmless11 For someone who wants to get into politics and leadership, are you really going to block everyone in your constituency just because they asked a question you think is stupid? You don’t even have any power yet, but you’re already acting like you’re better than them. Not cool bro
The hardest pill I swallowed this year was realizing that you can feel completely alone in your lowest, and time won’t slow down for you, days still pass, people still laugh, life still demands things from you. No one stops to ask if you’re okay enough to keep going. So you learn to stand for yourself, even when your legs are shaking. You learn to be your own voice, your own support, your own reason to keep breathing. It’s a hard truth, but it stays with you: at the end of the day, when the noise fades, and everyone else is gone, the only person left to root for you is you
A lot of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
There’s a time hubby and I were at the airport. We got into the picture and selfie moment. We took quite a number of them. All nice and laughing. Upon viewing them he told me to delete some coz he didn’t like how he looked in them. I insisted and said No. He insisted and I also insisted it’s my phone.
He asked me only one question: So u can’t listen to me if I say I don’t like them?
I knew there and then we’ve now crossed into the husband mode and outa friend mode no-more. I immediately handed over the phone and he deleted the ones he didn’t feel okay with.
That’s all she’s trying to say here.
The ability to discern who is talking at what moment and acting accordingly.
Hope this example throws more light..