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[$ammie🧡$olace @Solacified]

You’ve got to pay to live, and even dying isn’t free.
So, dust yourself off and don’t lose control.

[🌞🌞 @WaniAdebayo]

One day, I’ll have my bath, go to work in the morning, then head to the airport in the evening to start a new life in another country.

But until then, a moving babe will meet her luck soonest.

[﹆ @flowzki]

“omo you don dey old o, better go marry”

if i marry i go automatically start to dey young ??

[Katalia @KatapillarK]

ladies if you have no kids, date a man with no kids.
believe me.

[HONITEL👑 @HonitelHQ]

I genuinely think you are an incredibly fóolish person if you ever let anybody gaslight you into believing it is okay for them to still be in contact with their ex while they are in a relationship with you.

I genuinely do not care if they ended on a good or bad note, but if you fall for the gaslighting that “they didn’t offend me, so there’s no point cutting them off now that I’m in a relationship,” then, just like I rightfully said, you are a fóol. A big one at that.

So there’s a person your boyfriend or girlfriend dated before you, whom they were actively and sexually involved with for a long time, who still has access to them, and they are selling you the lie that even though they still talk because they’re “friends,” they have boundaries, and you’re buying it? Nahh, your head is actually not correct.

In 7 out of 10 situations like this, there’s nothing innocent about such “friendships.”

The moment your talking stage or babe references their ex two or three times while talking to you in a bid to make any sort of comparison, or even casually, that is your cue to leave them.

No one who respects you will put you in a position where you have to be the one to tell them to cut their ex off now that they are in a relationship with you.

[ThatBlessedGirl @BlessedGirl001]

Warning to All men out here.

If you know you're not the type of man that forgives cheating and your wife knows that fact too, then she cheats, you have your evidence that proves your wife is cheating on you.

Never ever confront your wife without letting your people know. Or else she will unalive you untimely. Thereby protecting her name.

Remember, a cheating wife is a dangerous woman who have your life in her palms.

So before you confront her, stop eating her food, call your people, send them the evidence of your wife cheating, invite her parent, your parent & your lawyer to your house without your wife's awareness, spill the beans, and give her your divorce letters.

A lot of men have gone down 6ft to the ground because their wife cheated. Confronting her directly without letting your people know, will put your life at risk.

[TheLowkeyMummy🤎 @TheLowkeyMummy]

When I said a cheating partner wants you dead. They called me everything but a child of God. How can one man infects you with HIV, Hepatitis B and Syphilis and you have not arrested him for attempted murder?????

[but black @HildaNgwa25489]

@PempressP No reasonable man will forgive a cheating woman 💯

[Oṣóyínká 🪔 @sledge_baba]

Incase love wan make you mumu forgive so them go use slap and toxic banter reset your brain.

You're sorry ke? Me I don tell all my friends say you cheat o

[Sodiq Isiaq @i_am_dimmygee]

Once you catch your woman cheating, first tell like 3 to 4 of your friends , e get why.

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

Some of y'all's next relationship will be private because it's with the ex you promised never to speak with again.

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

I will never forgive a cheating woman, no matter how I find out about it. Even if the cheating happened in 2024 and I only find out in 2026, the day I discover it is the day I'm ending the relationship.

Whether you admit it yourself or I uncover it through my own digging, the relationship will definitely end. I can't stand the thought of another man having my woman. From that moment on, I would automatically be irritated by her presence.

[RUKEVWE👸✨ @Ruky_Baby27]

@AOluwafemi70700 Forgiving a cheat is the worst thing you' can do for yourself as a man

[Mikki @Like_Mikki]

A man who forgives infidelity and takes her back isn't showing "unconditional love", he is showing a lack of self respect.

When you eliminate the ultimate consequence for the ultimate betrayal, you are explicitly teaching her exactly how much disrespect you are willing to tolerate for the sake of convenience.

Women don't change because they are forgiven. They change when actions have consequences.

[Rhoda @Symply_rhoda1]

My friend caught his girlfriend cheating and, against everyone’s advice, forgave her. He even quit a better-paying job in another city because he said, “Distance is what caused this. If I’m always around, she’ll change.”

He started working from home just to spend more time with her. Every morning they’d leave the house together, and he’d even surprise her with random visits during lunch.

[Ustey @manus0024]

Moral of the story:

You can’t monitor or “fix” a cheater. Once trust is broken that badly, the healthiest move is to leave, not play detective. Living in constant suspicion is just slow emotional torture.

[chinenye @chinenyeway]

Nothing hurts like realising you were just a placeholder in a love affair. It hurts differently 😭

[Headking's Mindset 🧠 @MindOfHeadking]

The options she thought she had weren’t actual options.

She got used & dumped by those guys & now she thinks she can come back to you.

[Muna @Munalozy]

Some of us are still lover boys and lover girls. We just haven't found someone worthy of all the love we have to give.

[Achalugo @IamPhina_phinn]

Sometimes the greatest disappointment is not what someone did. It is realizing that if the situation had been reversed, you would have never treated them the same way. You would have checked in. You would have apologized. You would have tried to make things right. That realization can be heartbreaking because it forces you to see that your hearts may not have been carrying the relationship with the same care. I hope you find people whose consideration matches yours, people who protect your heart with the same thoughtfulness you naturally give to theirs.