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Despite all the praises that I give to my lovely wife, I am still the one that tell you that women do not love men.
And that's God's design.
You can argue this all you want.
But my honest prayer for you, is that may something bad not happen to your source of livelihood.
That is when you would see the true woman that you married.
I am telling you young men now, because you may do everything right and legitimate, but life happens to some of the best and kind of us.
You really need to take your relationship seriously.
Take the harder right, than the easier wrong.
How you date your future wife, will determine how well she would cope with you, treat you and respect you in marriage, when or if things go wrong with your finances.
You will surely notice changes in your wife, should anything happen to your shield.
And you would notice them in two forms.
1) is she changing because she is silently regretting getting married to you, and is ready to crash the marriage unless you sit up?
2) Or is she changing because she's genuinely worried about you, the children that you both have, & is feeling so depressed because the man she truly wants to spend the rest of her life with, is in distress?
If it's the former, the foundation of your relationship was poor, and you did not take time to vet and date with all sincerity of purpose, and she didn't really earn her place.
If it's the latter, then you married right and did things the proper way. And life is just happening to you, but you're married to a kind woman.
All these things that I have saying for years, are as a result of things that I have experienced, seen in real life from others, & from thousands of DMs that I have read from this community.
Nothing is more difficult for you to achieve as young men, like finding a wife.
It's very hard.
You must do it the right way, and do it afraid, too.
As long as you believe in marriage, and you want to have children under a balanced home, this is something that you must not treat with levity.
Finance is so important in marriage.
But it's not important in relationship.
It's so because you must first find your wife without money inducement, so that you can mold her to prepare for the times of lack.
And then, even if it happens that she surpasses you financially, she may still be submissive to you as her husband.
Even though this one is tough, but it happens.
Everything depends on how you led her before you married her.
The reality of marriage is different from the realities of relationship.
That woman that you thought was the next best thing to slice bread, will show you what you never imagined.
I don't know how else to explain these things, but I sincerely hope I am passing a message to those who would care to think deep, far, and assimilate it.
End.
You must earn your place in your man's life, as a woman.
It will be hard, but it's worth it.
Today, I shared some deep things about my lovely wife and I.
I didn't do it out of arrogance or disregard for my lovely wife.
I did it because I want to teach you young people that what you call "woke" today, is a dangerous poison that you're consuming.
Women love money, and so do men.
But women love money that is being spent on them, and men love money that they make legitimately.
All what my lovely wife had to let go while we were dating, she has been getting them in marriage.
That woman bills me at the slightest opportunity.
Though for the right reasons, but I feel the weight on me, & I don't feel bad doing it.
Infact, if God gives me more, she'll have more.
But she did not get there by asking me to pay for her hair or airtime or food.
She didn't get there by asking me to place her on monthly salary.
She didn't get there by asking me to go and steal, so that I can spend the money on her.
She didn't get there by cheating on me because I could not take care of her expenses.
She didn't get there because her family could cater to her needs.
Because we have seen young ladies whose parents or family members can cater to their needs, yet they are greedy and covetous.
The manual and teachings that I have been putting out in the last almost 5 years, is very good for you.
Do not allow what these feminists, feminized men, bitterly divorced women or woke celebrities or podcasters to decieve you.
Date sincerely, put in the work and stay focused on your careers, education and businesses.
For you young girls, do not allow your mothers to decieve you.
A woman is always a woman.
What she could not do under your father's roof, do not let her push you to do it.
If she was tired of your father, why is she still married to him?
Stay closer to your fathers instead, if your mother is obviously pushing you to bring shame to your family name.
When you make mistakes, learn from them, and do not allow your mistakes to define you.
If you cheat on your man, please have some shame and do not make it a norm because he's in the dark.
For you young men,
Please learn that you're the leaders.
The more you keep failing & stealing, the more you'd be meeting prostitutes in the name of girlfriends.
Every wrong decision you make about your life, has potential negative impact on the woman you're dating.
But learn to change your ways and do better.
Some of you are currently dating women that God has destined for you.
But your youthful exuberance is making you blind to it.
I told you all that God was so kind to me, this morning.
Yes, he was so kind to me.
The woman that I married, is a gem.
And I mean it in every sense of the word.
You have someone like her right now.
If you misuse the opportunity, you may not be as fortunate as I am.
End.
Absolutely horrific reports out of Benue, Nigeria. Over 100 Christians reportedly massacred in a coordinated overnight attack in Yelewata.
Eyewitnesses confirm the killers shouted “Allahu Akbar” during the assault.
The world must not turn a blind eye to this violence against Christians.
Women,
Always remember.
You'll most likely settle in faster as a married woman than your husband.
Especially if he married you before he was 30 and almost all his close friends are still bachelors.
In the early stages of your marriage, you'll feel like you made a mistake.
When it comes to finances.
You as a woman, must be very careful with how you use it to uplift/help your man.
It's never in a woman's place, to be financially responsible for her man.
It's in her place to be financially accountable to him.
If you throw your money to his face
Let me say these again to young women.
There are things you should always look out for, in any single young man that is close to 30 and above.
1) He should not sleep in your house, unless it's an emergency, even if he's the one paying for the rent.
2) His level of thinking & the friends he keeps should show a reasonable degree of maturity & decorum.
3) He should not be jobless. He must be doing something & it should be seen that he can take care of himself.
4) If you are the one that is always pushing him to be better, & he shows non-chalant attitude, then he's not ready to grow beyond where he is.
5) You must not be older than he is, and your education, societal or social status should fairly align, or he's way ahead of you.
6) You should be pleased with how he cares for his siblings and parents.
7) He should spend more time making money, than he spends going to his religious place of worship.
8) If you're sexual with him, you must be satisfied with how he does it, & be okay with the size of his penis.
9) You must be able to pinpoint how he has been able to change your life for the better, & what value he brings to the relationship.
10) You must have tested his temperament to see how he handles issues, and he's not always the one that apologizes everytime.
11) He's a ladies' man, & not too clingy. He can go for hours, without disturbing you with calls and texts.
12) You're scared of losing him, & you show him respect because he deserves it.
13) He's not a fraudster, & not sympathetic to fraudsters.
14) He keeps to his words most of the time, and he's kind to you.
15) He has his own place where you can visit him, & be comfortable in it.
Don't waste your prime with any man within that age, in the name of "I am in love".
By the time those men will be ready & serious, they may be 40, & be looking for much younger ladies to marry.
Know what you need & go for it.
Create boundaries for him, & stop cheating & begging him for money.
Except you want to be fooling around.
End.
Show your wife that you're listening to her so that you'll have peace.
Listening to your wife is not the same as always doing what she tells you, or suggests to you.
It shows that you're carrying her along in decision making.
Even if you'll still do what you want to do.
End.
Let me repeat.
A widow is not a single mother or a divorcee.
A widow will raise her daughter in the ways of her late father.
A divorcee or single mother will raise her daughter with bitterness.
If you meet her daughter, do not just jump into marrying her.
Find out how she