A instant way for me to tell if people resonate on a soul level is their generosity - generosity of heart, resources, time etc. stingy people are not and have never been my people because the relationship always ends up imbalanced. I don’t want to keep tally because you do.
I dont know who needs to hear this: he knows how liking those girls stories makes you look/feel/seem - he doesn’t care. He follows those girls for a reason. He doesn’t just “click out of habit.” He has justified his immature behaviour and he thinks you’re stupid and won’t leave.
The one that moved on the fastest did no healing and is bringing the same baggage to dump on someone else. Be thankful you’re giving yourself the space to unpack your own, instead of making someone else’s heavier. When you are ready, you’ll still have it - it’ll just be lighter.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but people online don’t care about your opinion. I’m guessing people in person don’t either, hence spewing it online. I’m sorry you were ignored as a child. I hope you heal.
You should love when people are intimidated by you. If they try to undermine you or subtly mock you, amazing! It means you are embodying something they would like to but can’t. It blows my mind that they think I can’t see why they are doing it usually, they don’t even know
People who are not on the same wave as you will go to lengths to misunderstand you. This is not because they are “bad” it’s because you live in truth and that disrupts the lies they tell themselves.
Men who watch other men do women wrong are just as bad. I don’t care what you think. If you have your own moral compass but defend your friends when they don’t, you’re just as weak.
To the men who benefitted from the fact that any woman was abused before you, you are getting what is coming to you. Benefitting from the actions of terrible men also makes you terrible. The more covertly abusive are still abusive.
If you don’t have discernment, do not comment on my page. I don’t care what you think when you believe everything you’re fed. Just because someone is a woman doesn’t make them a victim and just because someone is from an oppressed race doesn’t mean they care about the oppressed.
I used to feel so powerless as a kid when I wanted things to happen but physically did not know how - then I discovered magic. Spite plus heartache to a magical person is the perfect recipe for a sh*t show for those that harm them.
If you feel special that you “got me” and I “loved you so much” id like to remind you I was abused. You just were SLIGHTLY better than a narcissistic abuser. I emphasize SLIGHTLY. You are still pathetic regardless of which poor sweet abused woman made you feel worthy for a moment
I will not date a man who creates content again unless he has the same or more traction than me. These dudes get close just to copy you. Wild. Imitation is flattery.
Someone once said to me that they were glad that even with everything I’ve gone through and I’m still so loving. I guess I just hadn’t met my threshold yet and mine was greater than most peoples.