It saddens me that so many people have gone through an avoidant discard. It’s not a normal breakup, it’s fundamentally one of the most traumatizing things you can experience.
@montypythong ^^^^ because why was my first pap at 26 and I was BESIDE myself crying at the thought, and it was just,,, a spoolie brushing my cervix 🤠 my doctor was so kind and she understood why i was so scared but I’m still so embarrassed
A lot of women internalize men’s treatment to be about them. The “he would if he liked you”…yes but within his limits. A lot of these men are just unintelligent, unromantic, broke, inconsiderate, unimaginative and emotionally dysregulated. It’s their lack of capacity.