You’re way better off hiring a men’s marriage coach. Large majority of my clients — these are exclusively guys who have already separated or have been served papers, etc. — save their marriage.
Half of them start working with me AFTER a therapist told them to get divorced.
This is the exact experience that most of my clients have. I’ve had the men I work with report this to me easily 500+ times.
If you want to increase the (bad) odds of finding a good therapist: look for older, with PhD, male. And age / PhD matter more than gender. This is why:
Some clips from @ElijahSchaffer and I’s couples counseling session
We did sessions where I am clearly wrong to see if anyone ever tells him to divorce me 😹😹
Dropping this on a new channel this week?
PhD in Psychology > social worker with therapy training (super woke profession)
Older therapist means they were educated before woke took over universities
Male doesn’t help much, but it ups your odds a little of being tag teamed by female therapist and wife.
But…
The story in this screenshot is an extreme case, but it's very common for wives to unconsciously frame test their husbands around sex.
One of the guys in the summer cohort had some of the best sex in his marriage a few weeks ago, and his wife put plenty of little tests out there first. In the past, any one of these challenges would have shut him down for the night. Not being flustered changed the game.
"I'm freezing. I'm too cold." —> "I'll turn off the AC, babe."
"My stomach's been acting up." —> "I'm willing to take the risk, babe."
"I take a lot longer to warm up these days than I used to." —> "Good news. I cleared my calendar. I have no other appointments tonight."
Think of those frame tests as her WANTING to be in the mood, wanting to put herself totally in his hands, but needing to be sure he can hold her without dropping her and so putting out hesitating "feelers."
In this case below the wife is guilty of some crazy ugly behavior, but she's still deep down looking for confidence and congruence. He's letting himself feel ashamed of his own desire. He needed to own his desire to take her and be unapologetic, treating her more extreme nonsense the same way the guy above treated his wife's hesitation.
Her: "What the hell are you doing?"
Him: (Looking her straight in her eyes) "I'm taking YOU for a ride darling. You look HOT and I want you."
That's not forcing himself---she can say no. But it's holding his own desire without a hint of hesitation or embarrassment.
And I expect, even in this crazy case, I'd give it 75% odds of getting results right then and there.
This is a GREAT day for Alberta Independence. Mark Carney has shown that he is willing to crush the economy out of spite. Truly, the core of Canadian identity is jealousy and envy for America.
In 150 years, we’ve gone from teaching Latin and Greek as the core of a boy’s intellectual and moral formation—alongside Euclid, Scripture, ancient history, composition, and the beginnings of French or science—to a system that treats classical languages as rare electives (or relics), prioritizes broad STEM literacy, English language arts, modern revisionist history, digital skills, and an expanding list of social-emotional and practical competencies.
As a result, we have a country filled with men who are compliant workers with very few educated leaders who understand culture and history. There is no system to fix this aside from taking responsibility for it yourself and correcting it in your own life and your children’s lives.
Elon Musk is single handedly saving America from decline. He revived their entire space industry, now he will reshore chip manufacturing. Man is a complete legend, and we are lucky to live in the same time as him.
I am sorry to say this but it looks like Liberal Boomers destroyed Canada
economically
demographically
and, culturally in one generation.
A remarkable feat.
This is true whether a person has a degree or not. I have 1.5 graduate degrees and a graduate certificate. It accounts for MAYBE 4% of my education. Most of what I learned is a result of nothing more than my curiosity, intelligence, and access to free/cheap information.
Referring to people without a university degree as “uneducated” is inaccurate and a psyop.
It pre-frames those without (mostly) useless college degrees as low-IQ and lesser — when in fact most genuinely educated people did receive their education via college indoctrination.
You’re being presented with a false choice between this retarded manosphere and being a complete pussy. Real strength, real masculinity, is developing and harnessing your strength in the service of others, to include your country.
In the last few years I have helped 1000s of GOOD men move from chaos and venom to peace, respect, and love.
I know the playbook for avoidant wives in 2026. Inside and out. Every step, every set-back, every scenario.
If you could use the help, DM me "method".
Every good husband needs to know this:
When she stops feeling safe with you — or stops trusting your leadership — her decisions become erratic. Spending, drama, late nights out, bad calls with the kids, sometimes (much) worse.
An otherwise normal woman starts acting crazy.
Her system shifts out of defensive mode. The prefrontal cortex upregulates. She prioritizes healthy habits, her children, and her marriage once again.
Instead of drinking and late nights with toxic friends she's excited to read to the kids before bed.
Everything feels peaceful.