Now show her biting her nails until she bleeds and crying because her shirt feels too shirty. Show her laying in bed for a week wanting to kill herself because she can’t connect to another human being and feels like a skin walker in a hot girl suit. Show her eating disorder 😍😍
She is absolutely not in the wrong.
150 calls is harassment, so it’s completely reasonable for her to see that behaviour as obsessive, especially when she had no context for why he was calling. In any other situation, we’d all agree that calling your ex that many times is excessive.
The real question is why, in his moment of need, he didn’t turn to his brother or his friends as a support system instead.
Constantly trying to hold women responsible for men’s actions is unfair and frankly ridiculous.
I remember when it dawned on me that this whole “men are logical, not emotional” thing is a complete lie. Men are *very* emotional. They’ve just been taught that their emotions are logic.