Do you know what really disappoints me about South Africa?
Let me speak. I know people have sex, sex that is nothing but pleasure. I know people do it safely and others do it raw.
If it's just pleasure, you disappoint me by keeping that.
You know very well you are not ready, the other person isn't either. You have so much good free health care around you. You can wait until you are ready.
You know the life you life and how that other person stands a big chance to suffer. In whatever form. Because that dude that was inside you has zero interest to be present in any way.
Have you ever look at other countries? In the claimed best country in the world, they don't even give you good health care for free and have completely blocked all abortions even if your life is on the line.
You have no business keeping a child that will know nothing but suffering if you can wait.
Sex is for making babies only.