people pointing out that all slurs are degrading are completely missing the point.
the r slur is not reclaimable because there is no way to use it that is not going to be punching down at other disabled people. this is not true for other slurs.
Jay Z is a rapist.
R. Kelly is a rapist.
P. Diddy is a rapist.
Bill Gates is a rapist.
Elon Musk is a rapist.
Johnny Depp is a rapist.
Donald Trump is a rapist.
George W. Bush is a rapist.
Marilyn Manson is a rapist.
Cristiano Ronaldo is a rapist.
Leonardo DiCaprio is a rapist
It's always really funny how Christians interpreted "the lord will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain" as "don't say 'on God' or you'll burn in hell!" and not "don't use His name to justify evil acts like hate or prejudice because He wouldn't stand for that."