Alot of non Trans people just expect and crave tearfilled sanitized coming-out stories where the shy demure boy who loves dolls blossoms into hunter schafer, exclaiming "im exclusively into men by the way" before being group hugged by drag queens waving love is love fans
They do not care that they are wrong. They know they are wrong, they know they are jousting at a mirage of transfemininity created by raunchy turn of the millennium comedy movies. They do not give a single damn.