Black folks just tryna muster up the courage to be themselves and not be defined in any way. To be the gumbo pot of multifacetedness that we are. Bringing joy and color to the world like God made us. ππΎββοΈ I'm black ppl it's me who is on a house being free as ME.
Just cuz they didn't reply back doesn't mean you were rejected or abandoned. Anxiety or obsessive thoughts are can be irrational at times. Assume the best not the worst. Change that negative thought to be more optimistic. You always have a choice. #triggersteach
When you get real witchoself you'll start to align. PURE(honest) intentions is at the core and start of any journey. You can't lie to GOD. THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE LOL RT THO.
Make a list of all the things that bring you joy and focus on that.
Here's a few of mine:
My Family, Food, Music, Comedy/chick flicks and action movies, Dancing, overall positive where I can be me unapologetically me w/out being judged type energy aka( UNCONDITIONAL LOVE)π
Hold that vision no matter what this is how you establish your stability, support, foundation, family. Redefine it all for you by how you feel not what people tell you is fact. It's mostly relative and suggestion even if they never give that disclaimer. Integrity is key. π
Keep in mind that NOT ALL information or everything you READ, LISTEN TO or WATCH is fact! What you allow in your MIND will become your REALITY. Decide what you want your life to look and maneuver the things in your life to reflect that. I Choose to steer away from things that
fuel anxiety, paranoia and fear in my life. God's love, light and positivity is all I need the rest will follow. That energy alone will align, heal, and elevate me to where I want to be. Get real witchoself and visualize, speak AND write how you want your life/future to look.
GOD being 1st is ESSENTIAL in this journey!
Random: When you start to get in yo head stop and do something stupid. And focus on the feeling and what you WANT. Assuming is the devil lol it only creates what you fear! #LIVEinthePRESENTmoment
Surround yourself with positivity, stop allowing others into your reality stop inviting yourself into other people's realities. #recalibrate#quietthenoise#consciousliving
You can get your point across w/out being a rude bitch. Excuse my French lol remember the universe is a mirror. Don't dish what you can't take. And FYI that attitude is a defense mechanism, Release the fear and let your sweetness shine. You are safeπ.
For me the The labels and diagnosis of behaviors and characteristics carry a stronger energy than the action. It's a distraction from the root of the REAL problem(wound)and serve as a deterant from the SOULution(message/lesson).