πΈ Some basic findom rules to follow if you're new:
β’ Attention is a luxury, not a free trial.
β’ A sub who wants everything before sending usually sends nothing.
β’ "I'm about to send" is not a payment notification.
β’ Stop counting promises. Count deposits.
β’ Being available 24/7 won't make someone spend more.
β’ You don't need to prove you're worth sending to.
β’ The loudest subs are rarely the biggest spenders.
β’ If he can write a novel in your DMs, he can send.
β’ Not every conversation is an opportunity. Some are distractions.
β’ Protect your energy like you protect your money.
β’ Build a brand, not a dependency on one spender.
β’ The best thing a sub can do is send. Everything else is just talking.