it's always sad how time and time again, a woman's love for a piece of media is viewed less than a man's because people see the women as "annoying posers who only like it for the aesthetic" and the men as "geeks who TRULY understand the piece of media and appreciate its art"
Having a morally flawed but tragic favorite character is a special kind of hell cuz you'll tweet "GOD HE SHOULD DIE FOR THIS" and half the comments will be fellow fans hating you cuz they think ur serious while the other half is genuine haters who cheer cuz they think ur serious.