They don’t REALLY want a man with emotional intelligence; they actually want a man who practices “EMOTIONAL ACCOMMODATION.”
What they really want is: I want to feel and express my emotions however I want, whenever I want, and you will take it, validate it, and comfort me… even if it destroys you in the process.
Emotional intelligence isn’t about catering to someone else’s every mood. It’s the ability to control your OWN emotions, think clearly under pressure, and respond like a rational adult. It’s about self-control, awareness, and taking responsibility for how your feelings affect others.
also when they say they want a man with emotional mature, what they actually mean is: be hyper-attentive to my moods, anticipate my feelings, bend
yourself around me, and put my emotions above everything else. But the moment a man stands up for his own feelings, sets
boundaries, or refuses to constantly carry their emotional load, he’s branded “insensitive” emotionally unitelligent or “emotionally immature.”
Let’s be honest: they don’t want intelligence…they want an emotional punching bag.
Propaganda I’m not falling for:
“If he wanted to, he would”
Because it’s a weaponized phrase to shame men into doing what women’s wants without considering stress, money, neurodivergence, culture, fear, or plain confusion.
Entitled people are just the worst.
@xxk1llsw1tchxx on god 😭 like im someone who NEEDS my personal space. i cannot stand constantly having someone RIGHT there in my space and touching me when they don’t need to be touching me. im not against physical affection, just in the right amount.
People thinking they need to have constant access to their partner is why so many relationships fail bro cause like wdym you need my location, a response every 5 minutes, me to be actively updating you about my day, and you need to know all my passwords??? Weirddddd
Men are simple creatures — they’ll tell you what they want, show you what they like, and mean exactly what they say. The confusion usually starts when you try to read between lines that don’t exist.