The worst people to date are people still in survival mode.
Even if they love you, survival will always come first. Always. And if you try to save them, they’ll drown you with them.
It’s not your job to save them. I promise you.
Dear Oku,
Ditto!
When you enter Lagos back, let me know where I go meet you to do you same.
I don already order my iron stud boots down my good man.
Bye for now.
I learnt this from my uncle.
He and his ex fiancé had issues. He went to her family house to plead with her.
Her parents were present, he went there with just his friend. Another heated argument started as they both narrated their sides of the story.
My uncle kept quiet because he was in the midst of his to-be in-laws. The girl continued running her mouth until she pointed a finger to my uncle and said, "eleyii naa."
That statement changed everything.
My uncle said, he stood up, thanked his ex parents, and told his friend to meet him in the car. He left.
Later, everyone pleaded with him later to forgive the girl. The girl too pleaded. They got back together, but he told the girl he'll never marry her.
She thought he would change his mind, so she got pregnant. He took care of the pregnancy and accepted the child. But he never married her.
Years later, he married someone else.
A church founded by Peter Obi’s supporter.
Bruh, these pigs are obsessed with the man🤣🤣
I mean, this entire post wouldn’t have had any impact if Peter Obi’s name didn’t go into it.
It will happen. Amen
NDC needs young people with the contacts and financial sagacity to match the APC.
We don’t need people that just jumped from the APC to the NDC hiding under the umbrella of a godfather.
What Ugo is doing is what women always do and what other women always defend women for doing. The pain stem from it being a man.
My stand is constant. I don’t buy into people jumping from relationship to relationship as though they are afraid of being alone, instead of taking their time. However, I’m just enjoying the lamentation of hypocrisy.
“You’ll not see someone like me” will see who pass you sha. The divorce is glowing. He likes it there, we like it for him too.
Youre right and I'll tell you why because I can.
Given the circumstances of his marriage, they expect him to be miserable - as per Nollywood.
They hate that he seemed to cover all bases - prenup, marriage, divorce + custody, removal of his ex as dependant, exoneration from DV claims and he is unapologetically loud.
They don't care about whatever circumstances surrounded the marriage or dissolution just hate the fact that "a cheating gurl took an L".
They hate that they can't troll him for his looks, career, pockets or his ability to pull 10s as he pleases + he is young. So why not zoom in, on his nostrils.
Was he doing too much publicly at some point? Relatively yes.
But I can rationally charge it to two possible factors:
1. He was genuinely also deeply affected by the way the marriage turned out & the repeated public crashout + need for some kind of validation was a necessary step to putting it behind,
2. When a situation puts you on the spotlight for the very first time, a lot of people don't know how to leverage on the overwhelming first round of applause & hang it there - they stretch it until the balance tilts.
These are my honest assessments.
Do these assessments justify the vitriol he's getting from women currently? No.
He seems to be doing well and they hate his guts.
The honest-to-god truth might be that - he might not be doing that well emotionally but he has refused to allow weakness be his public identity and doesn't conform to their definition of "humble".
Me seeing that the world cup opener is between South Africa 🇿🇦 and Mexico 🇲🇽.
You people thought you've seen hatewatching with Arsenal. Wait till June 11.
3 days to go.
A child of GRACE.
Happy Birthday Ife Salako.
I’m always in awe of how much God loves me and He proves it to me every time.
Thank you all for the well wishes. I am grateful.
Ire o✌🏾