A partner should make your life easier, not harder. If they’re using you as an unpaid therapist instead of building with you, they’re slowing you down. If they’re constantly reacting to their emotions and expecting you to fix them… trust me, it’s not worth it. If they don’t want to hustle with you but just wait at the finish line to collect the earnings and celebrations you know what kind of person they are. Respect yourself enough to walk away
Star Taylor
@Sneak0o So you should really know better. If you knew th story of your grandfather. Children and families were put in the gas chambers Sneako. You thought you’re cool and wanted to be relevant. Smiling at the immense pain of millions
@sneako Sneako you’re so talented but really ignorant at the same time. The human beings that were put in a gas chamber children, families and you are with your privileged wannabe cool guys yelling that song. You just want approval.
@HALALK0 You still are controlled by a label then. You’re a Muslim. And you’ve been participating in black and white thinking when it comes to that. Performative religious behavior on the internet to show everyone how much of a Muslim you are.
What I would teach my younger self if I could go back in time: (None of this is written with AI)
1. Celebrities and Influencers don’t have a special Aura that predetermined their fame. They just attained skills that give value to other humans. Also many of them are pretty stupid. They just create a mirage that they have it all together to sell more products.
2. Don’t believe your thoughts or the thoughts of your family or people in your school. Most people are identified with their thoughts and see life through a limiting lense. Then they teach you the same limitations. You don’t need any beliefs. Just go after what you want and put yourself in the situations you want to be in. Your brain will get used to that and you will feel deserving of all of those things. And that’s how you create a confident belief system. (Which you also don’t need. You just have to move forward.
3. Healing is moving forward. Don’t try to figure out your trauma. It’s an endless cycle. The brain is like any social media algorithm. It will give you what you engage with. The more you spend time inside of your head on trying to figure out or fix your trauma the more trauma the brain will give you to fix or figure out. Shift your focus forward. At first your brain will not like it and will give you “wrong feelings” and “danger thoughts” to not move forward. Move forward anyway. This is how you show your brain that you don’t care about those patterns anymore. The more you move forward and live your life the more your brain will support you in living your life by giving you ideas to do that.
4. You’re a good hearted person. Only share your authentic self with good hearted people. Don’t share yourself with people who don’t show you with their actions that they care about your well being. They will show you who they are. Don’t listen to their words.
5. Stop chasing stories that make you feel better. “Soulmates”, “Law of Attraction “, “Religions”, “Astrology”, “Old Souls”. It all vanishes in the face of skillful action. Don’t escape reality with stories to create an identity. You are born a son of God. Divinity is in your body. There’s no plan for you. You create the Plan. Because you are a Creator
6. People will hate you no matter what you do. So you might as well be yourself.
7. No one is coming for you. You are responsible for your success.
8. You are your best advisor. You are your coach. Don’t do the things to chase feelings. Do the things that make you look in the mirror and be proud of yourself.
9. There’s no special someone. It’s all skill based. And you can learn skills.
10. Most people will not understand you. It will hurt but it has to be ok. Share yourself online and the people who resonate will find you.
11. You don’t plan your life beforehand. You try and then calibrate. People love to plan because they want to avoid the pain. You need to walk the path to learn to walk the path. You need to ice skate to learn how to ice skate. You need to fall to find your balance. The more you try the more skills you get. People pay for skills
12. Meditate
13. Fuck the “Cool Crowd”. They just play society’s game, follow trends and don’t think for themselves. Create your own game.
14. Sleep is more important than anything. It gives you the ability to do all the things you love with all your energy.
15. Treat kind people with kindness. But you can’t do the same with unconscious people. You need to set strong boundaries with them.
16. Most people follow reason by their identity and not logic. Don’t reason with them.
17. People who come from trauma look for control and safety. Be careful people will promise you control and safety with grifter teachings.
18. Let me know if y’all liked it the I do more
Love
Star
We learn the most by Trial and Error not by reading. People always want to know the answers beforehand. That’s not how it works. You discover them on the path
Human beings are not meant to live in apartments next to strangers who don’t know what it means to be respectful. We are supposed to live in a tribe with people who respect us
When you make a video you have a higher likely hood of it to go well if you speak with more energy and conviction. Why would anyone listen to you if your energy is low
Spending time inside of your head creates Mental Illness. Your brain will give you more of what you ruminate about and then you think it’s truth. Then you live in a warped reality. Spend time outside of your head