As a man, the less emotionally attached to the women you become romantically involved with, the better.
This is for several reasons.
Most critical, if you are more emotionally attached to her than she is to you, she will cease to consider you attractve, and she will leave you.
The gym isn’t about abs.
It’s about becoming a man who can protect his wife, lead his family, and walk into any room with presence.
Train like an animal.