I do mean it when I say NO ONE expected it. He adored me, my family and friends liked him. He was handsome, athletic, well-spoken, socially adept, easy to get along with, thoughtful, seemingly self-disciplined. Finding out who he was felt like I had been hit by an 18-wheeler
The assailant owns LGBTQ sober homes. These are cash cows in an unregulated industry. Queer people trying to get sober are paying tons of cash every month to a sexual predator with victims all over the country. You can sue him in civil court if you’re one of his victims.
back when I still hung out with cis men regularly i remember we were talking about sexual assult and one of the guys said "It cant be that common I don't know anyone who's been assulted" and we had to tell him that all three of the woman at that table had been assulted
@CerosTV when South Asians started publicly pushing back on Apu from the simpsons.. white folks i knew were saying "no-one use dot be offended." and i had to tell em my mom never watched the simpsons because she found his depiction racist. decade ago.
@CerosTV When people say “back when everyone wasn’t offended by everything” they mean “back when minorities didn’t have a big enough voice and we normalized bigotry”
Living in this la la land bubble of ignorance about things that DID happen doesn’t make the past better you were just an ignorant idiot who didn’t pay attention!