stars chou

地球人です🌏

[stars chou @StarsChou]

即時我們擁有無限的時光，也不會捨棄的那些人事物和情感，讓我們窺見永恆。

[Evie ♡ @EFCevie]

quick reminder that if you think some women deserve to be raped or assaulted that means you don’t actually care about violence against women.

rape and assault aren’t “punishments” or “acceptable” when it happens to someone you don’t like.

[Scott Roberts @ScottRoberts]

Men, at some point, you have to grow up.

Put down the endless video games. Stop obsessing over toys, collectibles, and entertainment. The world doesn't need more 27-year-old boys. It needs men of character, conviction, and responsibility.

Open your Bible. Pursue Christ. Lead your family. Serve your church. Build something that outlives you.

The time for childish things is running out.

[Lore GuerreroX @HumanaCuriosaX]

La novia de mi hijo llegó a nuestra casa con un labio partido, un ojo morado y sangre en la mirada.

En el instante en que abrí la puerta, lo supe.

Crecí viendo cómo mi padre golpeaba a mi madre, a mis hermanas y a mí.

Pasé años interponiéndome entre él y mi familia hasta que finalmente terminó en prisión.

Así que cuando la novia de mi hijo admitió en voz baja:

«Fue él…»

Me sentí físicamente enfermo.

Nos contó que no era la primera vez que él la golpeaba.

Mis hijas despejaron la habitación de invitados y le dijimos que estaba a salvo aquí todo el tiempo que necesitara.

Unos días después, invité a mi hijo a cenar.

Me comporté con normalidad.

Le hice preguntas básicas.

Preparé comida.

Lavé los platos.

Pero todo el tiempo no podía dejar de mirar sus manos.

Los pequeños cortes en sus nudillos.

Las mismas manos que usó en ella.

Entonces finalmente le pregunté:

«¿Por qué estás golpeando a tu novia?»

Inmediatamente empezó a mentir.

Dijo que todo estaba bien. Dijo que no la había visto en días.

Fue entonces cuando algo dentro de mí se rompió.

Le dije que se pusiera de pie.

Le dije que le iba a mostrar cómo se siente ser la persona más débil por una vez.

Y lo golpeé.

Fuerte.

Le pregunté cómo se sentía tener miedo.

Cómo se sentía suplicarle a alguien que parara.

Porque ella también suplicó.

Pelearon hasta que la novia de mi hijo bajó corriendo las escaleras gritándome que parara.

Mi hijo se veía horrorizado cuando la vio allí parada.

Le dije que tenía suerte de que ella no hubiera llamado a la policía.

Suerte de que su padre no le hubiera llegado primero.

Suerte de que yo no lo hubiera tratado como tratan los hombres en prisión a los que golpean mujeres.

Luego le dije que saliera de mi casa y que nunca volviera.

Porque en ese momento, todo lo que podía ver cuando lo miraba era a mi padre.

Han pasado semanas ahora.

Su ex todavía se queda con nosotros mientras se pone de nuevo en pie.

Y cada noche sigo mirando las manchas de sangre en el sofá preguntándome si lo manejé de la manera equivocada.

Pero una cosa que sé con certeza:

No crié a un hombre que golpea mujeres.

Y si lo hice…

entonces fallé en algún punto del camino.

[Daisy @DaizyZeeX]

FACT: Female victims who kill in SELF DEFENSE will spend an average of 15 years behind bars

Men who kill their female partners serve ,on average, between 2 and 6 years behind bars...

[Basil the Great @BasilTheGreat]

🚨NEWS: In Sweden a woman has committed suicide after a judge released the migrant who raped her citing 'Not enough evidence'.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

People think healing is soft. But healing is violent. Because nothing is scarier than waking up one day and realizing... your whole personality was just a trauma response. That your calm was actually suppression. Your independence was built on not being able to rely on anyone. Your perfectionism was just fear in disguise. Healing means grieving the version of you who did what she had to just to feel safe. And letting her go is the hardest part.

[Shahriq Khan @RealShahriqKhan]

"You Christians worship a God-man."

Yes. That's literally the Gospel. As a Muslim, I used to think that was the ultimate criticism.

Now I think it's the most beautiful truth I've ever heard. Because Christianity doesn't teach that God stayed distant.

It teaches that God came near. The One who created galaxies stepped into His own creation.

Not to show off or dominate. Not to sit on a throne demanding more from us.

But to suffer for us, to walk among us. To carry our grief, and bleed for us. To die for us. And to rise again.

What finally changed my perspective was realizing that "Son of God" never meant God had a biological child.

In the Jewish world, it meant sharing the same nature.

The claim wasn't that God had a baby. The claim was that God revealed Himself. And honestly, that's where Islam lost me.

Because I spent years believing God would never humble Himself enough to enter His creation. Then I realized that's exactly what makes Him glorious.

Not that He stayed far away. That He came close.

Close enough to touch lepers. Close enough to weep. Close enough to suffer. Close enough to die. So yes, Christians worship the God-man. Because no mere man could save us.

And a god who remains forever distant cannot show us the depth of divine love.

But Jesus did. Fully God, fully man and fully enough.

[Electra @Electrarythm]

If you want a deeper understanding of your unconscious habits and how to break free from them, try this exercise daily.

Backwards Review Exercise

Rudolf Steiner, widely considered one of the greatest minds of the 20th century, recommended mentally reviewing the events of your day in reverse order, starting from the present moment and moving back to the beginning of the day.

At the end of the day, sit quietly and mentally go back through everything that happened. Try to remember conversations, reactions, emotions, movements, and small details as clearly as possible. Some people do it before sleep, others in the morning so they stay more awake during the exercise.

A useful way to do it is backwards. Start from the present moment and move step by step toward the beginning of the day. This requires more attention because the mind cannot rely on automatic memory flow.

One of the most interesting parts of the exercise is seeing how the mind reacts to certain experiences. Small events often stay in our thoughts for hours without us understanding why. Someone says something irritating, looks at us a certain way, or reacts unexpectedly, and the moment keeps replaying in the mind long afterward.

Later, while reviewing the day calmly, it becomes easier to see what actually caused the reaction.

Usually it is not only the event itself, but identification with some image, expectation, insecurity, or habit.

For example, imagine making a joke you personally find harmless, but the other person becomes offended. Even after apologizing, the interaction keeps replaying in your head. During the review you may suddenly realize the discomfort came from wanting approval or from disliking being misunderstood. Without reflection, these patterns usually remain unconscious.

This exercise slowly reveals how mechanical many reactions are. You begin noticing recurring emotional patterns, roles you play, and thoughts that repeat automatically. Some people discover they are constantly trying to appear intelligent, helpful, spiritual, funny, or important without realizing it. The moment that image is threatened, emotion appears immediately.

Neville Goddard later expanded on a similar idea through what he called revision.

While mentally replaying the day, if you come across an unpleasant event, you consciously reimagine it the way you would have preferred it to happen. Instead of reliving the event exactly as it occurred, you replace it in imagination with the desired version and fully experience it that way.

At first many people think revision means making reality only slightly better. But the idea is to imagine the experience exactly as you wanted it to happen, not just a small improvement of the original event.

The most difficult part of all these exercises is keeping attention from wandering. The mind naturally moves from one association to another automatically. You begin reviewing your day and suddenly find yourself thinking about something completely unrelated.

The practice makes it very clear how little control most people actually have over their own thinking.

With consistency, however, memory improves, concentration becomes stronger, and awareness of yourself deepens naturally.

[Sargent la Alquimista (COMS. OPEN) 🏳️‍⚧️☀️🏺🇪🇺 @SargentUniverse]

Una de las voces mas criticas contra el regimen opresor de Iran y el machismo beligerante que aun existe en culturas de oriente medio.... ninguna niña deberia verse obligada a taparae por contentar los deseos falocentricos de unos hombres que no son capaces de controlar sus propios mosntruos....

Descansa en paz gran maestra del comic, Persepolis seguira hablando por ti aun tras tu partida, valiente mujer 🚺♀️🇮🇷

[Tock @yvan_theriault]

COMMENT LIRE LES PERSONNES

• Les hypocrites — sont toujours trop aimables.
• Les envieux — dévalorisent les autres.
• Les nobles — aident en silence.
• Les courageux — admettent leurs peurs.
• Les petits esprits — parlent des autres.
• Les grands esprits — parlent d’idées.
• Les faibles — cherchent des coupables.
• Les forts — savent pardoner
• Les ignorants — croient tout savoir.
• Les sages — savent quand se taire.
• Les menteurs — promettent beaucoup.
• Les heureux — ne se mêlent pas de la vie des autres.

[stars chou @StarsChou]

@allen1392 @XXVI_Ephemera 要有改變，就要有人願意跳進髒水裡面清理......

[LED @mrledtasso]

bu arkadaş "eski seni affedemiyorsan ve şimdide yaşamıyorsan" kendini nasıl affedebileceğini anlatmış. gel, biraz kendimce anlatayım.
kendinin geçmişteki bir versiyonuna kızmak o kadar gereksiz ki hocam:D neden?
çünkü bu bir bakıma bir bebeğe yürümeyi bilmediği için kızmak gibi bir şey.
yani o zamanlar bilmediğin şeyler için, henüz öğrenmediğin başa çıkma becerileri için, kimsenin sana öğretmediği ve kendi kendine öğrenmek zorunda kaldığın duygularını düzenleme taktikleri için kendine kızamazsın. çok klişe ama gerçekten öyle...
kendinin geçmişteki bir versiyonuna tembel demek, kendinin geçmişteki bir versiyonuna beceriksiz demek seni en çok yıpratan şey...
çünkü onlar o zamanlar bildikleriyle ellerinden gelenin en iyisini yapıyorlardı.
ve kendinin geçmişteki bir versiyonundan nefret etmek, başka bir insandan nefret etmek kadar yıpratıcıdır. bilirsin, affetmen ve unutman gerekir bazı durumlarda...👇🏻

[Self Defense DIY @SelfDefenseDIY]

Top 3 best self defense technique for everyone.

[Dr. David Wood @Acts17David]

Hey, @Grok, what's the most common name of convicted grooming gang rapists in the UK? 🤔

[센 Bake @senga118]

진심
리얼돌 칼 망치에 비유하는 한남 저능그자체

칼, 망치는 그냥 도구일 뿐 향하는 목적이 없음
리얼돌은 목적이 있고, 특정 인구집단을 정확히 겨냥함

이 비유도 약하지만 굳이 비유하자면,
여성플레이어 대상으로 남성npc만 구현해놓고
부랄풍차돌리기, 전립선뚫기, 목조르고 때리기 옵션<<이런게 유일한 컨텐츠인 체감형 VR게임같은거임

심지어 주변 남자지인, 남연예인 얼굴로 커스텀하는 기능까지 있음

이게 실재하면 방통위에서 바로 제지하겠지?

게다가 16세 미만 아동형은 금지라고 하는데
그 기준은 어떻게 나눌거임?
리얼돌 대부분 크기가 150cm이하에 30kg이하
아동사이즈만들어놓고 가슴만 달아놓으면ㅇㅋ하자는 개논리임

또 아동형을 금지하는 이유도
리얼돌이 아동에 대한 왜곡된 성적인식을
심어줄 우려가 있고, 현실 아동에 번지기 때문인데

성인 여성이 대상이면 갑자기 그것들이 정상화됨

여아가 18세가 되는 즉시 남성의 침범으로부터
신체주권이 지켜질 마법이라도 생기는게 아닌데
법의 보호만 싹 사라지는 웃긴 현상

[stars chou @StarsChou]

值得思考

[𝓛𝓮𝔁𝓲𝓮 💗 @softpinkgiggles]

A lot of women are choosing to stay single right now, and it has absolutely nothing to do with "hating men" or having unrealistic standards.

It’s a logical math equation.

For generations, women were socialized to believe that finding a husband was the ultimate prize. But today, women look around and realize they can buy their own homes, fund their own lives, and build deep, fulfilling support systems through friendships.

When a woman achieves her own peace and financial independence, the baseline bar for a partner completely changes.

A relationship can no longer just be "better than nothing." It has to be better than her solitude.

And right now, solitude is incredibly peaceful. It means a clean apartment that stays clean. It means coming home after a long workday and only worrying about your own dinner and your own emotional battery.

Too many men are still looking for a traditional wife who manages the entire domestic and emotional load, while simultaneously expecting her to work a full-time job to pay half the bills.

That isn't a partnership, it’s a bad trade deal.

Women aren't afraid of commitment. They are just refusing to sign up for a second shift of unpaid project management disguised as romance. If a relationship doesn't actively bring peace, safety, and genuine teamwork into her life, she is perfectly content staying single.

[Isaac @isaacrrr7]

Una joven británica de 15 años en Leamington fue violada en grupo por afganos. Grabó todo con su teléfono, suplicando: «Ayúdenme, por favor, ayúdenme, me van a violar».

Sus abogados argumentaron que las imágenes no podían publicarse, ya que provocarían disturbios en todo el país.

Así, la verdad se oculta para proteger la narrativa.

Violadores afganos. Víctima menor británica. Pruebas ocultas.

Esta es la peor pesadilla de las bandas de explotación sexual infantil.

El pueblo británico merece conocer toda la verdad; basta de encubrimientos.

@RightSide_Uk

[Adam | Faithful Messenger @Adam_FaithfulM]

What the Bible actually says about prayer that most Christians ignore:

1. Be persistent, not polite (Luke 18:1)
2. Unanswered prayer has reasons — ask rightly (James 4:2–3)
3. Prayer is warfare, not ritual (Eph 6:18, Daniel 10)
4. God knows your need — ask anyway for the relationship (Matt 6:8)
5. Thanksgiving comes before the answer, not after (Phil 4:6)
6. Unforgiveness blocks prayer — it is a condition, not a suggestion (Mark 11:25)

Prayer is not a spiritual discipline among many.

It is the breath of the Christian life.
Without it, everything else suffocates.

[juli ★ @julidlls]

vieron que cuando un tipo mata a alguien por robarle un celular piden pena de muerte pero cuando matan a una mujer de la forma más atroz se preguntan qué habrá hecho la víctima? ESO es el machismo. ni más ni menos

[Marcela Quintero @Marcela252016]

Teniendo una conversación en el trabajo y un compañero dice: “las mujeres de hoy día ya no quieren tener hijos, eso está mal. Mi apellido ni existe casi, yo necesito tener mínimo 4 varones para que siga mi apellido.”

Una compañera le dice: “uds pueden decir bien fácil que quieren 5, 10 hijos, porque no los paren xD Ustedes se vienen en 3 minutos y el trabajo de uds se acabó.
Nosotras tenemos que cargar un bebé 9 meses, dejar de beber o fumar, tenemos náuseas, cansancio, cambios hormonales, la ropa nos deja de servir, citas médicas a cada rato, complicaciones en el embarazo, parir… ¿qué sacrificio hacen ustedes?”

Se quedó callado…👀