Instead of trying to fix the situation and feel happy in the fact that everyone around you is happy, learn to be comfortable with uncomfortable situations. That teaches you that you don’t need to derive your sense of validation and worth from fixing the other person’s problem.
But that’s completely fine because imperfection is sexy. Imperfection means you try different things and ultimately lead a fun life, have a funny time with women and with your work. It’s the simple things but they need to be practiced everyday.
You realise that the outside world has its own problems. You have yours but at the end of the day, life is better lived on your terms and with you being comfortable with the fact that you’re not perfect. That you have likes and dislikes. That you will disappoint people.
Instead of trying to fix the situation and feel happy in the fact that everyone around you is happy, learn to be comfortable with uncomfortable situations. That teaches you that you don’t need to derive your sense of validation and worth from fixing the other person’s problem.
Women like cocky men because they are not afraid to assert themselves and say no and most importantly do what they want to do. That is attractive, not a nice guy who thinks the way to get into a woman’s pants is by doing what she wants. Trust me.